Is my apartment to small for a woman to respect?i live in nyc?

I live in a studio sort of. There are two rooms. When you walk in you are in the living room, that is 8ft by 17ft. then theres a door to the next room. The next room is 6.5ft by 9ft, but this room 2ft by 6ft sink and counter about 4ft tall. On top of the counter is a half size refrigerator freezer, and a electric grill and rice cooker. This is my bedroom slash kitchen.I have a futon in there that is small 3.5ft by 6ft as a bed. But I was thinking of getting a queen bed. Do I need a bigger bed? the last girl I brought in here said it was small with a ill face. The bathroom is nice how ever and i guest the third room if u count it.The bathroom is big for a bathroom its the same size as the kitchen, and it has a beutiful tub with glass sliding doors.So with a queen or not? and is my apartment to small for woman to take a 27 yearold asistent teacher seriously. whos still in school?Or will she loose rspect or coolness for me.